Think of two possible situations. First - you have just moved into your house and it seems to be almost flawless. The only problem it has are the neighbors. Second - you have lived in your place for ages, it is just fine and you have absolutely no plans to move away. But suddenly, new neighbors move in and unfortunately their presence is not very pleasant. What to do in those situations? How do you solve the problem of bad neighbors? The aim of this article is to provide an answer to that, so read further to find out more.
If you are the new neighbor (and therefore the first scenario occurs), you should do a little research about the neighbors and the neighborhood before you actually move there. Ask someone who lives in the area already. It is unlikely that the owners of the home you are planning to buy are going to admit they are moving because of the neighbors. But ask other persons living there, you probably will find out something of your interest. It certainly is worth a try.
If, on the other hand, you have already moved years ago and the second scenario occurs, remember that a diplomatic and calm attitude is important. Many people are not satisfied with their neighbors but going to their house and yelling at them is not going to solve the problem. At first, think about why exactly you are unhappy. You might be just too spoiled. Also, think about whether you are not doing something irritating, too.
Are you convinced it is the neighbors who are in the wrong? Go and talk to them then. Just remember, approach them with a calm attitude. You could, perhaps, invite them over for a coffee or a barbecue party so that you can get to know each other. Not only that is is less difficult to talk to a friend and tell them about your problem, but they also might be nicer and more considerate after becoming friends with you.
Of course, it may be that the neighbors are ignorant and they are not willing to agree on anything with regards to the problem you have with them. Are they too loud and lots of people are complaining? What about a petition? Make it and ask for the signatures of all the unsatisfied neighbors. You will also need some actual evidence (pictures, for instance) that they are wrong. When you know all this, go and visit their house once more. In case they are just ignorant and do not want to listen to you at all, contact their landlord. The final step would be to solving it through legal channels.
If you are the new neighbor (and therefore the first scenario occurs), you should do a little research about the neighbors and the neighborhood before you actually move there. Ask someone who lives in the area already. It is unlikely that the owners of the home you are planning to buy are going to admit they are moving because of the neighbors. But ask other persons living there, you probably will find out something of your interest. It certainly is worth a try.
If, on the other hand, you have already moved years ago and the second scenario occurs, remember that a diplomatic and calm attitude is important. Many people are not satisfied with their neighbors but going to their house and yelling at them is not going to solve the problem. At first, think about why exactly you are unhappy. You might be just too spoiled. Also, think about whether you are not doing something irritating, too.
Are you convinced it is the neighbors who are in the wrong? Go and talk to them then. Just remember, approach them with a calm attitude. You could, perhaps, invite them over for a coffee or a barbecue party so that you can get to know each other. Not only that is is less difficult to talk to a friend and tell them about your problem, but they also might be nicer and more considerate after becoming friends with you.
Of course, it may be that the neighbors are ignorant and they are not willing to agree on anything with regards to the problem you have with them. Are they too loud and lots of people are complaining? What about a petition? Make it and ask for the signatures of all the unsatisfied neighbors. You will also need some actual evidence (pictures, for instance) that they are wrong. When you know all this, go and visit their house once more. In case they are just ignorant and do not want to listen to you at all, contact their landlord. The final step would be to solving it through legal channels.